Tag: bully

  • Shame Memories and Lessons

    Shame Memories and Lessons

    Spend any time reading or listening to Brene Brown’s work and you’ll get to understanding the toxicity of Shame. Watch her brilliant Ted Talk here on Shame. This word has such power in it that we tend to think its reserved for people in really bad circumstances; ones that have nothing to do with us. […]

  • My Children are the Bully and the Terrorist

    My Children are the Bully and the Terrorist

    It’s conflicting to be a parent. They are of me but not mine. I need to be open and honest for them to trust me. But I need to keep a safe distance when they have to work out who they are because sometimes, that work is at my expense. Frankly, my children will bully […]

  • Perspective Saves You From Feeling Sucky and Unlucky

    Perspective Saves You From Feeling Sucky and Unlucky

    During the first week of school, Eamon’s teacher told the class that Bullies don’t know, or care,  that you are very important to someone in your life. You are just not too important to the bully, who in turn wishes those people in his/her life who supposedly love him/her would act like it. It’s your […]