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Glam It Up

Posted by on Sep 20, 2019 in Creative Soul Living, Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Random, Self-Discovery | 0 comments

Glam It Up

A 20 something girl got onto the elliptical next to me and I caught a whiff men’s cologne? Smells have a way of taking you to a third dimension, to memories and feelings that would not usually occupy your day. And now they do. I realize that the memories of the showboating that were my 20’s, could be a bridge to making my 50’s a little more interesting. I just turned 53 and I’m finding my life a little blah. It’s midlife motherhood combined with the aches and pains of becoming old … and I’m bored with...

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Labor of Mom Love

Posted by on Sep 2, 2019 in Family, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Midlife Motherhood | 0 comments

Labor of Mom Love

My sister asked if I had any plans for the day. I said nah, I’m not doing anything. Just my regular stuff, no big deal. And she says, I would say you do a lot of stuff and a big deal. And I realize that I just belittled myself and all the hard work I put into my house that I do make it look clean and easy. I am at the store with my son and he asks if this half a cart full of groceries is a regular size shop. I ask if he knows how many meals a week I am responsible for. 21 meals and that includes any that I have to pay for at his school...

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What Do You Do All Day Mommy?

Posted by on Aug 9, 2019 in Creative Soul Living, Daily Shalagh, Homebody, Keeping House and Mind Aligned | 0 comments

What Do You Do All Day Mommy?

Fiona says she thinks I need to go and get a job. That way she can get to go to daycare after school and play with her friends longer. I told her I had a job. What do you do all day Mommy? I write and do all those things that take care of my family and keep the house in order. Yeah, that’s not a job. This isn’t just words from a child’s mouth, I know many a male has wondered what we do with all of our “spare” time at home. Truth is that unless you’re a home keeper-upper, you have no idea the massive myriad of details...

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Mugged by Grief

Posted by on Apr 29, 2019 in Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Random | 2 comments

Mugged by Grief

I admitted that finding the remaining single earring from a pair made me feel grief all over again. And I resolved to let go of that which causes me grief.

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Clearing Away the Clutter and Chaos

Posted by on Mar 27, 2019 in Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Wisdom Lessons | 2 comments

Clearing Away the Clutter and Chaos

In the beginning of the year, I began the simplification and clearing out of my house yet again. A couple years back, I read Marie Kondo’s book The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up . I adopted a few of her storing techniques but never went all through the house. In January,I start stripping my life of my past chaos and applying more of her techniques to embrace the magic. I got new towels for Christmas so in January, I cleaned out my linen closet and the old ones went to the SPCA. The chaos of too much stuff is overwhelming. I begin to...

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Self Love Day

Posted by on Feb 13, 2019 in Creative Soul Living, Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Self-Discovery, Wisdom Lessons | 5 comments

Self Love Day

Valentine’s week is here. And I found myself considering what self-love meant to me. Undoubtedly we can not truly pay someone the attention and respect of love unselfishly if we do not have some to spare from our own hearts. But what does self-love look like at it’s best. And can we court or woo ourselves into liking us better? Self-love is part care-taking and part self-compassion. It’s being a good parent and a gracious host. I love myself when I eat good for me food I’m happy to eat and that’s yummy too. I...

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How Do you Know the Wannas from the Shoulds ?

Posted by on Feb 4, 2019 in Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Wisdom Lessons | 2 comments

How Do you Know the Wannas from the Shoulds ?

I am in the process of clearing and cleaning out my files and shelves in January. After my collapse of November, I decided that all goals and shoulds from last year are suspect. Because I truly got the sense that I was striving for much of that based on what I thought I should be doing. But I couldn’t help but think, when do many of us have the opportunity or are encouraged to live for our own happiness? As women, we are programmed to take care of other’s happiness. As children of narcissists, we are not supposed to exist but for...

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Making Room For ME

Posted by on Jan 30, 2019 in Creative Soul Living, Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned | 0 comments

Making Room For ME

I am gaining clarity by clearing my space of clutter. And I realized that I am making space for me now. I have grown beyond where I was.

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Stillness Thoughts in a New Year

Posted by on Jan 2, 2019 in Blogging Along, Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Self-Discovery | 4 comments

Stillness Thoughts in a New Year

The stillness of the house is like a pond in a winter’s morning. It beckons me to sit and just listen to the tick of the clock like a cricket in the weeds. Instead of leaping up and jumping in, I sat down and napped in the yawning silence. I haven’t had time to myself in a week and a half. I organized my linen closet yesterday because I asked for new towels for Christmas. I filled three trash bags full of stuff I don’t need anymore or maybe never needed. A white matelasse bedspread I’ll never use as well as old towels...

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The Minutia of Christmas

Posted by on Dec 26, 2018 in Creative Soul Living, Daily Shalagh, Keeping House and Mind Aligned, Little Guy Lessons, Raising Fair Fiona, Wisdom Lessons | 7 comments

The Minutia of Christmas

( From December 2014 and last year, I adore this look back ) The sound was a thwap and a roll, hollow plastic bouncing and traveling across the floor. My new Christmas tree balls were this moment’s entertainment. The “ball balls” were being extracted from their big clear box and thrown while I hurried to put my laundry away. Although that’s exactly why I bought those, I underestimated the little monkey’s reasoning skills. Every day is jam-packed with holiday fun. Not unlike any other day in my life, I’ve been cramming...

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